Manners are a cultural focal point in order to not have to do the emotional calculus of Empathy. It saves a lot of time especially for you, so use it well.

  • Be Nice. When in doubt, be nice.
  • Punctuality Principle. Make sure you’re on time (but also don’t be flaked on)
  • Stagecraft. Being presentable is important
  • Confidence. Since you have manners, you should be confident and have self-respect
  • Noblesse Oblige. What you have, you must share (knowledge, money, etc.).
  • Humor. A basic sense of humor makes other people at ease.
  • Humility. Speak nicely and hold a big sword. Being humble will only increase the perception of your skills.